All babies cry—it’s how they communicate needs like hunger, discomfort, or overstimulation. It’s perfectly normal for infants to have fussy periods during the day, especially in the late afternoon or evening. Most newborns cry for about one to three hours a day during the first few months of life.
Some common reasons for everyday fussiness include:
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Hunger
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Wet or dirty diapers
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Being tired or overstimulated
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Needing to burp
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Wanting to be held or comforted
These moments of fussiness usually come and go and are relieved once the baby's needs are met.
When Fussiness Might Be Something More: Signs of Colic
If your baby cries excessively and nothing seems to soothe them, it could be a sign of colic. Colic typically appears around 2 to 3 weeks of age and often peaks around 6 weeks before gradually improving by 3 to 4 months.
Colic is usually defined by the “Rule of Threes”:
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Crying for more than 3 hours a day
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For more than 3 days a week
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For over 3 weeks in an otherwise healthy baby
Crying tends to happen at the same time each day, often in the evening, and your baby may clench their fists, arch their back, or pull their legs toward their tummy.
When to Be Concerned
While crying is normal, there are times when it may indicate a medical issue. Contact your pediatrician if your baby:
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Has a fever or appears ill
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Is not feeding well or is vomiting
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Has fewer wet diapers than usual
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Seems unusually sleepy or unresponsive
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Cries in a high-pitched or strange way
Trust your instincts—if something doesn’t feel right, it’s always best to check in with a healthcare provider.
Tips for Calming a Fussy Baby
Soothing a fussy baby takes patience. Here are some strategies that might help:
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Hold or swaddle your baby to provide comfort
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Gently rock, bounce, or walk with them
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Offer a pacifier
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Play soft music or white noise
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Try a warm bath or tummy massage
Remember, every baby is different—what works for one might not work for another.
The Bottom Line
Crying and fussiness are a normal part of infancy, especially in the early months. But if the crying seems excessive, follows a pattern, or you're concerned, it’s always okay to seek advice. You’re not alone—many parents face the same worries, and support is available.